*sigh*

I was reading the post over @ http://www.ericah.blog.com/ and she was writing about the loss of her son 18 months ago. Boy.... I know the pain.

Our first daughter, Allyson was stillborn @ 38 weeks in Nov. 1999. Unknown causes and we found out the day after my birthday.... It's hard to believe it will be 7 years in November!! Erica talked about regrets and things... Boy I started thinking about the I wishas and the what if's !!

*Sigh* I will be okay... It is good to remember....

2 comments:

Erica said...

Thanks for your comment on my blog, Heather. I've read your blog before! Hope I didn't bring your day down too much. What's actually harder than today (Paul's birth, after all, was a good thing) is January 31st b/c he died on July 31st, 2004. Unfortunately, January 31st is also my hubby's birthday, so I have to "suck it up" that day and delay my sadness till the next day (or get it all out when he's not home so I don't bring down his birthday).

. said...

I'm so sorry. I can't even to begin to imagine how y'all feel. :(